Mother is San Francisco’s premier queer women-centric bar, offering a welcoming Mission District sanctuary for the whole LGBTQ+ community.
Welcome to Mother, the 'dyke of center' heartbeat of San Francisco’s vibrant Mission District. As a standout entry on any modern gay map, Mother is far more than just a lesbian bar; it is a vital revival of the city’s storied queer history. Located at the historic 16th Street site once home to the legendary Esta Noche, owner Malia Spanyol has transformed the space into a 'safety net' and community hub for women, femmes, and the entire LGBTQ+ spectrum. Stepping inside, you are greeted by a dark, cozy atmosphere featuring a theater-style bar adorned with circus-like bulbs and a custom-built photo booth for capturing memories with chosen family. Whether you are sipping on a signature 'Crush' cocktail or a neighborhood-friendly $4 Modelo, the vibe remains inclusive and unpretentious. While the space intentionally centers on queer women and femmes, gay men and allies are warmly welcomed to join the fun. From high-energy Queer Proms and live local bands to laid-back 'Drink & Draw' nights and trivia, there is always a reason to gather. Recently named one of Bon Appétit’s Best New Bars in the US, Mother is an essential San Francisco destination for anyone seeking authentic queer culture and connection.
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